Title: 1LifeObit: Funeral Wishes
Author: Sarah-Luisa Gosling-Berté
Publisher: PageTurner Press and Media LLC
ISBN: 979-8-88963-622-9
Pages: 192
Genre: Memoir
Reviewed by: Aaron Washington

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Often, we leave so much for loved ones to do when we pass away, they barely have time to grieve. 1LifeObit: Funeral Wishes is the book which changes these burdens. It starts with a heartfelt and candid letter to the reader that delves into the importance of preparing for the unexpected and leaving behind a clear plan for one’s final wishes. The author shares her journey, which includes facing a ‘death sentence’ in her early 40s as a single mother leading to financial struggles. She emphasizes the unpredictability of life and the significance of taking control over aspects of our lives, including our deaths. Gosling-Berté encourages readers to consider and communicate their funeral wishes, highlighting this is an essential part of ensuring loved ones are not burdened with making such decisions during a time of grief and mourning.

The book covers various topics related to end-of-life planning, from memorializing memorable moments to addressing preferences for burial or cremation, and even leaving tidbits for the kids. It also explores the concept of leaving a legacy and how one wishes to be remembered. The author’s compassionate tone shines through the letter at the beginning as well as the little notes spread throughout the book where she offers advice on approaching the often-uncomfortable topic of death with loved ones. She emphasizes discussing these matters is a responsible act, especially when caring for children, grandchildren, or animals.

1LifeObit primarily focuses on non-monetary aspects of end-of-life planning, it serves as a valuable resource to prompt important discussions and decisions. It encourages readers to reflect on their desires and preferences, providing options for memorialization and the possibility to leave the decision-making to family and friends if needed.

This book is a guide to ensuring your love and concern for your family outlives you. It is a thoughtful, albeit saddening, little trinket. It emphasizes the importance of being prepared for life’s uncertainties and guides the reader on how to make important decisions about one’s end-of-life preferences. It may resonate with those who want to ensure their loved ones are not overwhelmed with difficult decisions in the event of their passing. It is also a good resource for individuals who have faced health challenges or are dealing with terminal illnesses; it may offer comfort and reassurance. It acknowledges the challenges of living with health problems and encourages a positive outlook on life despite adversity. Family members and caregivers of individuals with health issues, or those who have lost loved ones may also find the book valuable. It offers insights into how to support and care for someone facing health challenges, as well as guidance on handling end-of-life matters.

1LifeObit: Funeral Wishes is a compassionate and thought-provoking book which serves as a guide for individuals to navigate the sensitive subject of end-of-life planning. Author Sarah-Luisa Gosling-Berté’s personal experiences and empathetic approach make it a valuable resource for those seeking clarity and a reference point for their loved ones.